13.10.10

婆婆

Hi readers. Guess what? It’s past crys’s bed time, again. Crys actually went to bed at 11.00 pm. Honestly, crys really did. However, a sudden so-called-inspiration crossed crys’s mind and hola ! Crys is here to blog about something, again. Like what crys mentioned in some earlier blog post, crys couldn’t fall asleep when there’s something to blog about. Crys felt like something was undone and therefore, crys will just have to get out of the bed, jump onto the study seat, turn on lappiex and start blogging. Talk about inspiration, crys can really blog up to many times a day, if crys has the intention to do so. By the way, crys will be continuing today’s blog post in Chinese. Crys always has the opinion that Chinese words can express one’s feelings more than English does. Or probably crys wasn’t THAT good in expressing myself in English. Sorry to the readers who couldn’t understand Chinese, but crys will be doing this anyway. Crys should take this opportunity to brush up crys’s Chinese writing skills as well. You can probably use the google translator or something like that. However, the application uses direct translation and there’s no translation for Chinese proverbs too. Therefore, crys believes that it won’t mean the exact same thing. Anyway, the topic of the day is about crys’s grandma. Before beginning with the passage, let us ask ourselves, when is the last time you visited your loved ones?

回想起来,上一次见到婆婆,已经是好几个星期前的事了。虽然居住在同一排屋子里,各一小段距离就能抵达婆婆的家,但是却好久,好久才能相见一次。婆婆的腿,因为前几年不慎跌倒,而变得行动不便,只能坐在轮椅上。忙于工作的父母,只好请了佣人来照顾婆婆的起居饮食。平日每次说很忙, 没时间探望婆婆的我,近日突然有股冲动,想见见多时不见的婆婆。今天,我终于去探望婆婆了。仔细瞧瞧,婆婆年迈了不少,脸上的皱纹多了,白发浓密了,行动变得慢了,听觉更是退化了。当天的我,变得好有耐心。若换成平时的我,被唠叨几句,早就大发雷霆了。听着婆婆喋喋不休,觉得眼眶湿湿的。不是因为太烦了哦!而是好怀念,好怀念婆婆的声音。大概好久没听到婆婆唠叨了吧? 我就是个爱哭鬼。T.T

小时候,父母一如往常地忙于赚钱养家。哥哥和妹妹都被送于家乡的婶婶代为照顾。唯独我,是让爷爷和婆婆含辛茹苦地养大。也许爷爷和婆婆老夫老妻了,时常争吵。但因为我是爷爷和婆婆的心肝宝贝,他们绝不会在我面前吵架,也唯独我,才能够让平日不合的爷爷和婆婆牵手。记得有一次,我从幼儿园回到家里,逼着爷爷和婆婆陪我玩家家酒。扮演老师角色的我,拿着藤子,要爷爷和婆婆手拉手唱国歌。现在回想起,还觉得好好笑。哈哈!XD

现在,爷爷已经不在我身边了。这才知道,人生短暂。我们应该及早孝顺长辈。名言道:“树欲静而风不止,子欲养而亲不待。”不论爷爷,婆婆,或是父母,我们都应该珍惜与彼此共度的时光,以便将来不会后悔。我决定,以后尽量多去探望婆婆,陪陪她聊天。你呢?你又有多久没陪陪你的亲人了呢?:)

哈!真没想到,毕业后还会用着中学生涯学的名句精华。原来我还没把它们还给老师啊!:P 哭了那么久,是时候收拾心情去睡觉了。晚安! (都说了我的爱哭鬼!)


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